Power

I recently got in an argument with someone and after the dust settled, I realized something. Yes, I was annoyed and yes, I was angry. But, I allowed this person to anger me and annoy me. I gave them the power to do this by allowing them to get to me. I have realized that no matter what my wants, needs and wishes are...I can not make anyone adhere to them. But, in giving into the negative emotions, I am giving those people who don't respect my feelings a power over me. I have decided that I will no longer allow this to happen. I am determined to surround myself with only those who genuinely care and respect not only my feelings, but wants, needs and wishes. I will no longer allow anyone else to have power over me. I will always strive to respect those around me; even if it isn't returned...but, I will no longer seek the approval of anyone. This is my vow to myself. For everyone else....like it or lump it!